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by Jenn (nakedfaery)
at June 12th, 2006 (05:35 pm)



Basics

1. Name: Jenny - most people call me Naked faery online

2. Age: 22

3. Location: Portsmouth, UK

4. Sexual Orientation: Lesbian with a bad habit (i.e: bi) [Added: This is more a humorous thing than how I actually feel :-P I am technically bisexual, as I am polyamorous and one of my partners is male. However, he is the only men I have EVER found attractive, as I am generally not attracted to men AT ALL.]

5. Status: Polyamorous

6. Sign: Aries sun sign, Aquarius moon, Cancer rising

Favorites

1. Bands: Alec Empire, Breed 77, Delta Elemental, Depeche Mode, Dimmu Borgir, Fleetwood Mac, Incubus, Jack Off Jill, KoRn, Lacuna Coil, Le Tigre, Metallica, Mindless Self Indulgence, Nightwish, Nine Inch Nails, Placebo, Rammstein, Republica, Silverchair, Sleater Kinney, Snake River Conspiracy, System Of A Down, Tegan and Sara, The Cure, The Dresden Dolls, The Specials

2. Song lyrics: 'What you take won't kill you, but careful what you're giving...' Dream On, Depeche Mode

3. Movies: Really too many to choose from, anything with Angelina Jolie in probably

4. TV Shows: Don't watch TV

5. Books: Anything by Z Budapest. I don't usually read fiction, I prefer to read books that educate me.

About You

1. How 'out' are you: Very. I'm out to everyone except my 50 year roman catholic father.

2. Piercings (if so, feel free to post one pic of each):14





3. Tattoos (if so, you may post one pic of each): 3







4. Girlfriend/Boyfriend (may show one photo): One on/off boyfriend, one casual girlfriend, one consistent and mind blowing crush.



That is Chris, my sort of girlfriend. It's complicated.


5. What do you love most about your partner (if single, what most attracts you to someone): Sense of humour, caring nature

6. Hobbies/Interests: Reading, writing poetry and prose, documenting my life, making my art (collage)

7. What are the top 3 most interesting things about you?: My constantly changing hair colour, my political views, my piercings

8. How do you identify (butch, femme, mtf, etc): Andro-femme

9. What’s been the worst experience you’ve had regarding your sexuality: The time I 'earned my red wings' was a pretty interesting experience.

Random

1. Show us a picture of one thing you’re dying to have and tell us why:



2. Any pets (you can post pix): Two fish, and a cat. I don't have any pics of the fish, but I have a few of the cat.



3. Show us your favorite photo (doesn’t have to be of a person):



I want that as a tattoo.

4. What are the top five most imporant things to you:


  • My son
  • My partners
  • My writing
  • My art
  • Myself


5. There are two words that, when mouthed, look exactly like 'I love you'. What are they?: Elephant shoe

Opinions

Feel free to say as much as you want on 2-5 topics

I don't even know where to begin. Monogamy vs. polyamory is an argument I constantly have with people. I'm not saying everyone should be polyamorous, far from it. I just feel that people who are naturally polyamorous should feel free to express themselves in multiple relationships without scrutiny and disapproval from monogamous people. I dislike monogamous people consistently trying to rub their opinions in my face. I hate it when people assume because I'm with more than one person, I'm not really happy.

I'm a feminist Dianic wytch also. This means I believe that all Goddesses and Gods are faces of an all encompassing Divine Female natural force. However, I am forever getting told that I am not 'truly Pagan' because I don't believe in balance. It doesn't make sense to me to worship/pray to something I don't believe in for the sake of balance. That's why I stopped practising Christianity.

1. Censorship: I'm strongly in favour of a completly uncensored media. Media is supposed to unbiased and informative, and if it's censored, it's not. The only censorship I could grudgingly be in favour is censorship of explicit imagery from children.

2. Marriage in general: If it's what someone wants then they should go for it. However, I disapprove of people that get married just because they feel they have to. Like pregnant women who get pregnant by accident. I think lesbians/gays should have equal rights to get married if that's what they want. To be honest, I have more respect for cohabiting couples that stay together for their entire lives but don't get married. I feel more like they actually WANT to be together.

3. Representation of homosexuals/transexuals in TV/Movies: To me it seems more like gays/lesbians are used as a selling point in the media. Then again, I live in the UK and it may be different here. I don't like the idea of it being represented as 'naughty' or 'wrong' because it's a perfectly natural inclination for many people.

4. Gay Pride:

I was never really an active bisexual/lesbian until I read 'Making Gay History'. It really made me realise that all the changes in law regarding homosexuality have come about through hardworking individiuals, and I want to be one of those individuals that can help make further progress for future generations. I strongly support at least making your presence known at a gay pride parade. I'm not suggesting that all lesbians should get 'I'm a lesbian' tattooed on their foreheads, but I don't think they should feel ashamed and constrained to stay in the closet. Human sexuality is a beautiful, wonderful thing and should be celebrated.

5. Having an “alternate plan” for your life: I have no idea what this means to be honest. If it means what I am guessing it means.... Every day I face criticism for my choices to have multiple piercings and tattoos, and to pursue bisexual and polyamorous choices. Sometimes I do get sick of having to explain and defend these choices. But I guess it's the way of the world. The more people I tell, the less ignorant people there are out there. I am happy the way I am. I do ocassionally get the odd moment of 'I wish I was normal and fit in' but if I even tried, I'd be really unhappy. So if I want to be happy and at peace with myself, I have to take the rough with the smooth.

Tying Up the Loose Ends
1. What is ONE thing you would change about this application (don’t be shy): Make it a bit shorter, some people have short attention spans.

2. How active do you plan to be: Very active. I check my f-list at least 5 times a day.

3. What is one thing you would like this community to do: Help me make lesbian friends.

4. Promote us to one friend, one community, and in your journal, and provide links:
• One:
http://sweettears.livejournal.com/93327.html?view=297871#t297871
• Two:
http://community.livejournal.com/_promo_love/14745.html
• Three:
http://nakedfaery.livejournal.com/138934.html

5. Please post 3-10 clear photos of yourself, including one 100x100 for the members page.













Comments

Posted by: Melissa (drama_queen01)
Posted at: June 12th, 2006 06:05 pm (UTC)
mod//yes

i adore you, this you know. but when it came to your opinions...it seemed a bit...soapboxed at times. but you expressed your views intelligently and in a well-thought-out manner, so fuck it. lol

i LOVE your nipple piercing. my boi has her nipples double pierced. horizontal and vertical in each nipple. they're awesome.

i'm also dianic.

Posted by: boo boo kitty fuck (invisabletoyou)
Posted at: June 15th, 2006 04:54 am (UTC)

i had a very amazing weekend with a girl with cross nipple bars as well. they are most def awesome :-)

Posted by: Ari (i_discover_me)
Posted at: June 12th, 2006 07:04 pm (UTC)
ya

I like how you added in a strong opinion of your own, even though it wasn't called for and no ones done it in my time in this community (should we add that as a question?) and the nipple piercing is very cool, I might add

Posted by: Jenn (nakedfaery)
Posted at: June 12th, 2006 07:14 pm (UTC)
Re: ya


It seemed like a space to be ranty, and I thought why not? :-D Don't hesitate to add me, just let me know if/when you do so I can add you back.

Posted by: Ari (i_discover_me)
Posted at: June 12th, 2006 07:18 pm (UTC)
Re: ya

kay, if you want to be friendly add my other account- papaya2whip

Posted by: __ginaamaya (__ginaamaya)
Posted at: June 12th, 2006 07:21 pm (UTC)
Yes
Klaha- by Miyokome

I liked you and your app.

Posted by: Jade (i_heart_ashli)
Posted at: June 13th, 2006 12:20 am (UTC)
no.

erm...
no.

Posted by: Melissa (drama_queen01)
Posted at: June 13th, 2006 12:16 pm (UTC)

as stated in the rules, please provide a reason.

Posted by: eh, wot? (miss_watson)
Posted at: June 13th, 2006 03:54 am (UTC)
Yes

Hello rioteer.

Posted by: pink_amethyst (pink_amethyst)
Posted at: June 13th, 2006 07:58 am (UTC)
Yes

I enjoyed reading your app and I ♥ your nipple piercing! xx

Posted by: to make me better . . . (arc_en_ciel_)
Posted at: June 14th, 2006 04:01 am (UTC)
Noooooo

The whole sexual orientation comment has me frazzled.

Posted by: Jenn (nakedfaery)
Posted at: June 14th, 2006 08:23 am (UTC)
Re: Noooooo


If you read the application again I've added a bit. It was supposed to be funny :-P

Posted by: to make me better . . . (arc_en_ciel_)
Posted at: June 14th, 2006 04:18 pm (UTC)
Re: Noooooo

Ah, gotcha.

Posted by: caity ex lush (tastexthexstars)
Posted at: June 15th, 2006 02:51 am (UTC)
yes

I like that you put something for each of the opinion questions, even though you didn't quite understand one of them. I also like that you added in one of your own. The nipple piercing is definatly hot. <3

Posted by: boo boo kitty fuck (invisabletoyou)
Posted at: June 15th, 2006 04:56 am (UTC)
heck yes.

i clearly want to be your best friend.
++music, opinions, Polyamorous, rings, piercing, EVERYTHING.
lets run away together!

Posted by: Jenn (nakedfaery)
Posted at: June 15th, 2006 10:25 am (UTC)
Re: heck yes.


Hee hee. I'm adding you to my friends list. Add me back :-D

Posted by: Jenn (nakedfaery)
Posted at: June 15th, 2006 10:27 am (UTC)
Re: heck yes.


One of my filters (my TMI sex filter) is opt in, so post a comment anywhere on my journal and I'll add you to it.

Posted by: boo boo kitty fuck (invisabletoyou)
Posted at: June 15th, 2006 10:38 am (UTC)
Re: heck yes.

obviously i will, because we are going to be best friends.
however WARNING i will be, finalapology because i am that cool..♥

Posted by: nepali_princess (nepali_princess)
Posted at: June 15th, 2006 06:47 am (UTC)

yr nipple piercing is really hott. - did it hurt much??? I am thinking of getting mine done for my Birthday

Posted by: Jenn (nakedfaery)
Posted at: June 15th, 2006 10:24 am (UTC)


It was by far the most painful piercing I've ever had. It was worse than childbirth. It's not the nipple that hurts so much when they pierce it, it's your stomach. Your stomach sorts of knots up and clenches and you get god awful cramps. I'd only recommend a nipple piercing if you have other piercings and have some sort of awareness of the general pain factor involved.

Posted by: boo boo kitty fuck (invisabletoyou)
Posted at: June 15th, 2006 10:34 am (UTC)

omg really? cus when i got my nipple done i didnt think it hurt at all.

Posted by: Ariel (arielhp)
Posted at: June 20th, 2006 09:58 pm (UTC)
fuck yeah

everything.
i love it.

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